Hi Eld - if you haven't located a genetic counsellor yet I found a NSW HEALTH site online called Centre for Genetics Education (
www.genetics.com.au). I had a quick look and it has information on Find a Genetic Service, and Genetic Counselling Services and contact details (which included places all around Australia, not just NSW), plus lots of other useful information including IVF etc. Just click on the sections you want to find out about. It also explains what happens at the counselling sessions and so on.
Good luck - hope you find a genetic counsellor at the website I've mentioned. The counsellors are trained to talk you through the issues, explain your options, answer your questions, offer support etc - at no time should there be any pressure for you to be tested - it's entirely your decision.
Even if you do decide to go ahead and be tested, you can choose not to know your results when they arrive - (in a sealed envelope that can only be opened in front of you, so even the doctor/counsellor doesn't know your results until you want to know them) - right up to the last minute you can say you don't want to know the results, in which case they keep the results sealed in the envelope, locked away in case you change your mind later.
Has your father been tested or was his diagnosis made through his symptoms? Do you know the CAG count of your father or sister?
As I said before - let us know how you get on, if you feel comfortable doing that.
All the best,
sonnie